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of Creating Community
(or How to Get Out of the System
and Into Your Community)
Revolutionary Common Sense by Kathie Snow
www.disabilityisnatural.com
1. See yourself as—and become—a “regular” (not “special”) person or family.
2. Expect inclusion. First and foremost, inclusion is a state of mind. See yourself or your family members as citizens of your community who belong!
3. Develop and nurture
relationships with people in natural environments and typical
activities: community activities, church, school, leisure, etc.
4. Use natural supports and
generic services instead of services and programs from the system (like
soccer, ballet, swimming, etc. in place of formal therapy).
What would we do if there
was no system?
Would we really go without or would we find what we need in our
communities?
5. Ask for others’ help, and
then give back to others—however you can—in return. Community is all
about reciprocity!
6. Be specific about what you
want and need from the community, but also be flexible.
7. Be patient with others and
with yourself as we all try new ways of doing things. If your first
effort fails, learn from the experience and try again.
8. Experience the “dignity of risk.” Be willing to try things you’ve never done before!
9. Be proactive, not reactive,
when dealing with others. Think “win/win” not “win/lose.” Negotiate and
compromise.
10. Act as if—no matter
what—you cannot fail! See yourself as successful. Attitude is
everything!
©2001-06 Kathie Snow, www.disabilityisnatural.com. Clip art from Adobe In-Design. Permission is granted for non-commercial use of this article: you may print this web page and photocopy it to share with others. Click here to download the PDF handout version of the article. As a courtesy, please tell me mailto:kathie@disabilityisnatural.com) how/when you use it. Do not violate copyright laws: request permission before reprinting or republishing in newsletters, on websites, or in other media
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